The Grief & Joy Weekly Issue No. 18 — May 6, 2026 Alignment: Are you living in integrity with what you know now? Hey Reader, May is Mental Health Awareness Month, and we’re stepping into our new theme: Alignment. Because here’s the truth: wareness without action creates frustration. Alignment is what happens when you finally live what you already know. And baby… this week? Life gave me a VERY messy reminder. Let me tell you about the day the C train stopped me in my tracks. 🔵 The Day the C...
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Letters for the Living Issue #3A — Bonus Issue Oops… I Owe You This One Hey Reader, I gotta tell on myself for a minute. I’ve been back in New York since Tuesday — fully unpacked, fully landed — and this bonus issue has been sitting in my drafts for over a week. Written. Ready. Waiting. And still… I didn’t send it. Shout‑out to Felicia, who emailed me saying, “I haven’t heard from you in a while…” and that lovingly reminded me that I owe y’all a letter. Hey, I am human and life be life-ing...
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The Grief & Joy Weekly Issue No. 17 — April 29, 2026 Awareness: When the Body Speaks Louder Than the Mind Hey Reader, I’m back — but was I really gone?I mean… we still talk wherever I am. This is my first full day back in New York City after two months in Kenya. I am completely unpacked and ready for my NYC life. It’s also our final week in the April theme of Awareness. So let me ask you something: Where is your body trying to speak louder than your mind? Because here’s the truth:Most of us...
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The Grief & Joy Weekly Issue No. 16 — April 22, 2026 Awareness: Trust, Provision & the God‑Winks That Guide Us Hey Reader, As I prepare to leave Kenya and return to New York, I’ve been sitting with one truth: I have been held every single step of this journey. Not because I planned perfectly. Surely did not!Not because I knew what I was doing. Clueless!Not because I had a map. Well maybe Google maps. 🤣 But because life — God, Spirit, the Universe, whatever name you use — kept sending me...
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The Grief & Joy Weekly Issue No. 15 — April 15, 2026 Awareness: What’s Hiding in Plain Sight Hey Reader, OMG. I have so much to tell you about my first Vipassana. Ten days of complete silence with over forty strangers was unreal, surreal, and transformational in ways I’m still integrating. There were so many revelations, so many moments that cracked me open… but I can’t fit all of that into one letter. So today, I want to start with the moment that set everything in motion. The moment that...
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The Grief & Joy Weekly Issue No. 14 — April 8, 2026 The Awareness That Rises When We Let Life Pause Hey Reader, This month, we’re exploring Awareness.And this week, we step into the layer that holds all the others: Spiritual Awareness. Not religion.Not doctrine.Not striving. Spiritual awareness is the quiet knowing beneath everything.The truth that rises when the hurry falls away.The wisdom that appears when you stop rushing long enough to hear yourself again. A moment of spiritual listening...
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The Grief & Joy Weekly Issue No. 13 — April 1, 2026 Awareness: A Quarter in Review Hey Reader, Welcome to April — the beginning of a new quarter and a new theme inside The Grief & Joy Weekly: Awareness. But before we step into what’s next, I want to honor what the past three months revealed.Q1 was not light.It was not casual.It was not surface‑level. It was a season of: Change → Savoring → BaggageAwakening → Softening → Releasing And now, we pause long enough to notice what all of that...
about 2 months ago • 4 min read
Letters for the Living Issue No.3 What March taught me about baggage. Hey Reader, March, my birth month, was a month of noticing. Of naming.Of realizing how much I was carrying… without meaning to. Before I share the four moments from inside my private weekly letters, I want to tell you the story that held me all month long. 🟠 A Story About Baggage and the Fear of Not Having Enough I was in Watamu, on the coast of Kenya, repacking my bags with limited time, when I saw it clearly: So many...
about 2 months ago • 5 min read
The Grief & Joy Weekly Issue No. 12 — March 25, 2026 Baggage: What We’re Making Room For Walking into what’s next — lighter, supported, and carrying only what matters. Hey Reader, I mentally started packing for my 10‑day silence… and I had an "aha" moment. I didn’t need much. A shoulder bag.A few toiletries.Warm clothing.Supplements.My breath. That’s it. Ten days.One small bag.And a version of me who finally understands: My presence is what’s most important. It made me laugh a little —...
about 2 months ago • 4 min read